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Organizational Intelligence: Confronting a Fear-based Working Environment

Employed as a leadership coach for various organizations over the past two years I encountered many working environments; some great, some good, and unfortunately, some bad ones. The one most demoralizing is the fear-based working environment. You know that place of employment, where there’s little to no motivation to passionately pursue and expand organizational goals. The problem isn’t the employee but leadership’s inability to foster respect and build trust. In a fear based one working environment, the leader (manager or owner) controls with fear, creating negative vides in the workplace. This type of environment is challenging to say the least. In an economy like ours (December 2009), it is much more difficult for any employee to leave their job for a better work setting, so they stick around hoping for any kind of change. Like the movie, The Matrix, it’s like being caught in a never ending simulated reality; once you’re in it, you can’t leave. If you do leave, you have to get at the end of line, and wait for weeks, even months to be called for an interview. So what‘s an employee to do? The ideas presented in this blog post will help you navigate through this kind of working environment.

In a fear based working environment employees’ walk on eggshells wondering when the leader will show up to reprimand someone publically. I personally witnessed this scenario first hand many times. I remember a situation where employees were doing their jobs when suddenly the owner appears, standing quietly in a corner unannounced, watching to see if anyone says or does something slightly out of line. As soon as employees’ became aware of this person’s presence the atmosphere changed, giving each other “the look”, as if, “Be aware, she’s here!” As the owner walked around, the employees became quiet, perhaps hoping she would not choose any of them to pick on.

On other occasions, procedures or systems were changed simply by the owner’s whim or because a client-customer made passing comment or mild complaint. Instead of keeping or making a slight adjustment to a working system, a whole new system was devised and implemented. And most critical of all, reprimands were too often made in the open or in meetings, not in a private office.

Liz Ryan, author of Ten Signs of a Fear Based Workplace notes:

Fear shuts down our ability to think creatively, collaborate, and bring passion to the job. When getting through the day requires a focus on keeping one’s head down, taking no risks, and sucking up to anyone in management, your organization’s soul has left the picture.”

A fear-based working environment is difficult to change, since the owner/leader is set in his or her ways. Insecure leaders who think critically of others, rather than optimistically breed fear. Weak employees, who fear confronting the obvious elephant in the room, would rather put up with it, keeping the status quo. A leader creating this type of environment is usually caught in trap; to change would mean he or she would have to admit they have been managing wrongly, and would need to change their ways. So the struggle to achieve excellent working cultures stalls organizational effectiveness, even quenching the human spirit.

How does one confront such a leader? The best way to do this is through group confrontation, where several respected, tenured and highly qualified employees approach the leader in private with a short list of observations. What is a leader to do, fire this elite group? If a leader has any sense he or she should receive this honest feedback to gain respect required to lead effectively, then create the changes needed to transform themselves and their working environments.

What are other suggestions required to turn this type of working environment around? 

 
 

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Chapter 7 – Goliath’s Line

No one can terrorize a whole nation unless we are all his accomplices.
Edward R. Murrow

The Fear of Man

Fear or intimidation is a line of resistance that will test you just before your promotion. Goliath’s line is the line of fear and intimidation. Fear has the power to quench ones resolve to act upon a situation; the ability to overwhelm you when something big is at stake. The story line continues:

Meanwhile, the Philistine, with his shield bearer in front of him, kept coming closer to David. He looked David over and saw that he was only a boy, ruddy and handsome, and he despised him. He said to David, “Am I a dog that you come at me with sticks?” And the Philistine cursed David by his gods. “Come here,” he said, “and I will give your flesh to the birds of the air and the beasts of the field!”

David said to the Philistine, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the LORD Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. This day the LORD will hand you over to me, and I’ll strike you down and cut off your head. Today I will give the carcasses of the Philistine army to the birds of the air and the beasts of the earth, and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel. All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the LORD saves; for the battle is the LORD’s, and he will give all of you into our hands.”

As the Philistine moved closer to attack him, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet him. Reaching into his bag and taking out a stone, he slung it and struck the Philistine on the forehead. The stone sank into his forehead, and he fell facedown on the ground.|

So David triumphed over the Philistine with a sling and a stone; without a sword in his hand he struck down the Philistine and killed him. David ran and stood over him. He took hold of the Philistine’s sword and drew it from the scabbard. After he killed him, he cut off his head with the sword. (1 Samuel 17:41-51)

How did Goliath attempt to strangle David with fear before the fight? Goliath tried to intimidate David in three ways.

1. Size – A physical weapon of intimidation.

Size is a physical weapon of intimidation. Size has its advantages but size alone is not enough to be effective. However, when size is layered with armor it compounds the intimidation factor. Take a look at Goliath’s biography and you will see what I mean:

A champion named Goliath, who was from Gath, came out of the Philistine camp. He was over nine feet tall. He had a bronze helmet on his head and wore a coat of scale armor of bronze weighing five thousand shekels; on his legs he wore bronze greaves, and a bronze javelin was slung on his back. His spear shaft was like a weaver’s rod, and its iron point weighed six hundred shekels. His shield bearer went ahead of him.(1 Samuel 17:4-7)

Goliath, Irael’s archenemy used many tactics to intimidate people. Since “size” is associated with the visible realm I will classify it under the physical dimension. The enemy will use the physical realm to intimidate us. For instance, Israel was intimidated with size on more than one occasion. Here are some history reports to prove my point.

The people are strong and tall—Anakites! You know about them and have heard it said: “Who can stand up against the Anakites?” (Deuteronomy 9:1-2)

We went into the land to which you sent us, and it does flow with milk and honey! Here is its fruit. But the people who live there are powerful, and the cities are fortified and very large [strength and size]. We even saw descendants of Anak [tall people] there. (Numbers 13:26-29) [Brackets added by author]

These two reports of size and intimidation spread among the Israelites and seized the entire community with fear. Size has the tendency to seize upon our existing fears. For this reason we should activate our faith to counteract the fear factor. Satan uses fear as a weapon to assess the strength of our faith. David was of small stature the day he confronted the giant but his confidence level was huge in comparison. One way to overcome our fears is to remember God’s assignment for our lives. God does not give us assignments for us to fail, rather, He allows us to go through the process of confronting our fears so we can learn to grow and prevail over them.

Size is a tactic used by Satan to create a “smoke screen” to instill fear. The enemy always appears bigger than he actually is. Have you not read what Isaiah the prophet says about Satan?

Those who see you stare at you [Satan], they ponder your fate: “Is this the man who shook the earth and made kingdoms tremble, the man who made the world a desert, who overthrew its cities and would not let his captives go home?” (Isaiah 14:16:16-17)

You and I will see Satan one day and say, “Is this the man who shook the earth…?” It denotes that we will be appalled when we look upon Satan’s stature and think to ourselves, “If we knew this all along we would not have been afraid of him.” Size is nothing more than your perception and interpretation of the enemy before you. Satan will always make himself look bigger and stronger than his actual size, to keep you second-guessing your ability to defeat his agenda. Don’t fall into his trap and so deceive yourself. The second way Goliath attempted to intimidate David was using three strategic methods of attack.

2. Stratagem – Three methods of Satan’s attack strategy.

a. Encroachment

So it was, when the Philistine arose and came and drew near to meet David… (1 Samuel 17:48)

The enemy studies his opponents carefully to determine the appropriate time to engage them in the fight. As you can see Goliath’s approach to David was methodical, calculated and cautious. From a distance he roars loud like a lion but then as he approaches his target he encroaches quietly and subtly, carefully studying his prey before striking. Here is what the Scriptures have to say about Goliath approach:

> Goliath arose – After Goliath devised his strategy he stood up and began his movement toward his target. Common sense would tell me you do not “rise” to fight unless you have devised a plan of action; a strategy for your approach. In other words, you do not take action without a reasonable and winnable plan. Goliath had devised a plan of action in his mind and he was ready to implement it against David.

> Goliath came – This becomes the tactical stage where Goliath is moving out calculating and examining his target’s movements and weapons. At this point he is deciding which of his many destructive weapons he will use against David. Once he makes his decision he is intent on using it to win the fight.

> Goliath drew near – At this point Goliath approached his target with caution. Goliath started with a strategy but as he came closer to David he probably needed to adjust his plan of attack. This process is called maneuvering; making tactical adjustments to your strategy as you proceed on with your mission.

In the game of football, encroachment is considered a penalty; it is trying to get the upper hand by guessing what the audible of the quarterback will be so as to get off the line before your opponent does. Some call this cheating but remember that Satan does not play by the rules. He looks for a way to beat you with shortcuts and deceptive strategies. He will take advantage of your weaknesses, a significant breach or an area of vulnerability.

b. Human Shields

Meanwhile, the Philistine, with his shield bearer in front of him, kept coming closer to David. (1 Samuel 17:41)

The enemy makes us think he is impregnable; incapable of being taken by human means. In others words, he is so shielded with armor and armor bearers (those who assist him) that he sends a message of hopelessness and defeat. He tries to get you in a hopeless state of mind. If he can take away your hope, your faith is next in line. As you have noticed in the previous passage a shield bearer (a human shield) walked in front of Goliath. Goliath had an extra layer of military protection; a pair of eyes and feet; another source of communication through his shield bearer. Wow, what a brave man Goliath was!

Why do you think our enemy encroaches his way toward you? He is studying your weak spots to determine the best method of attacking you. Once he finds this open door he will use one or a combination of the three strategic levels of attack to defeat you.

c. Three Warfare Tactics

David said to the Philistine, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin…”  (1 Samuel 17:45a)

These are the three spheres of combat: close, mid-range and long range combat. You cannot afford to give up authority in any of these three realms of combat. Once you give the enemy an open window he can use any of these three methods of attack against you:

> Javelin – The range of the javelin is for distant combat. With this weapon you are usually unsuspecting because it comes out of nowhere; it is aerial in form, striking from above. In other words, you can get blindsided with a javelin if you are not alert and watchful. At times when something hits you out of nowhere you wonder, “Where did that come from?” A javelin is subtle, quiet and hits you from above at an unsuspecting time. To counter this attack you must adopt the posture of a watchman. A watchman was a person in the Old Testament that was appointed to keep the night or day watch. A spiritual watchman is a person of prayer. A person of prayer has a better chance to detect potential strategies of the enemy before they emerge. To be successful you must keep your spiritual radar active through prayer and intercession, which develops your spiritual sensitivities to the slightest developing strategies and movements of the enemy.

> Spear – The spear is for mid-range combat. In this scenario you are close to the enemy and you become too vulnerable for an attack and defeat. David encountered this form of attack as King Saul almost pinned him to the wall at close range with his spear (1 Samuel 19:9-10).

> Sword – The purpose of the sword is for close toe-to-toe combat. If you have to fight with your sword then you have allowed the enemy to get too close to you. This means that you have been too careless and carefree with your boundaries. Later in David’s life he was almost defeated and killed by this kind of close encounter (2 Samuel 21:16-17).

Size and strategy are two methods the enemy uses to breed fear and intimidate you. However, if we know his methods and measures ahead of time we can be better prepared to stand up against him and fight. It is interesting to note at this point that Goliath never used any of these three methods of warfare on David. David never gave him the chance. This is the posture of a true warrior. The third and final approach Goliath used to intimidate David was using sound effectively.

3. Sound – A spiritual weapon of intimidation.

The third strategic method used by Goliath to breed fear into David was—sound. Sound, as a weapon, has been used as a form of warfare throughout history. For instance, Gideon and his army were given instructions to blow trumpets, break jars and light torches to defeat the invading Midianite army. It is a very unconventional way to win a war but if God is in it, who cares about the method? In our modern culture sound is used in sporting events to throw off an opponent’s rhythm. For instance, in a basketball game when a player from the visiting team is on the free-throw line the opposing fans who are in the stands cheer loudly, wave streamers and banners to attempt to confuse and throw off the athlete’s algorithm. The narrative adds:

Goliath said to David, “Am I a dog that you come at me with sticks?” And the Philistine cursed David by his gods. “Come here,” he said, “and I’ll give your flesh to the birds of the air and the beasts of the field!” (1 Samuel 17:43-44)

One insignia of the enemy is that he is loud and boisterous. His voice at times seems amplified, especially when we give him open air space to speak. As a matter of fact, we are to control the spiritual airwaves with our faith declarations. We have the power to control the spiritual airspace in our own lives. David controlled the spiritual airwaves in his life by sending sound waves of faith into the air when he challenged Goliath to the fight. He did not allow the current atmosphere to dictate his demeanor like so many of us do.

Since sound is unseen I will categorize it in the spiritual realm. Sound is like the wind, you can hear it but you cannot see it, although you can feel its powerful effects upon you. Before David arrived on the scene, Goliath’s voice carried through the airwaves and landed in the ears of fearful men, paralyzing them with fear but not David.

 
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Posted by on June 4, 2011 in XYZ Coaching

 

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Chapter 8 – Overcoming the Line of Fear and Intimidation

Nobody roots for Goliath.
- Wilt Chamberlain

David’s Promotion

God chose the most unusual vehicle to defeat Goliath. He chose a young boy to challenge the threat of the behemoth. God used this situation to teach the Israelites a lesson on faith. God’s method to bring an end to the forty-day stalemate was to use a shepherd boy by the name of David. However, David would also find out something about his destiny during this encounter. His life changed the day he confronted and defeated Goliath removing the lingering plague from Israel. Many of us are not walking in our destiny due to fear crippling our advance. The lessons learned in this section will help you adopt a different posture—that of a winner. David is our example. Let’s see how David overcame the line of fear and intimidation.

1. David exalted God’s name (worship).

“I come against you in the name of the LORD Almighty.” (1 Samuel 17:45b)

Goliath blasphemed God’s name, but David revered God’s name. The reason why David could invoke God’s name with authority is he became intimate with this name and person. Are you intimate with God? God allows you to use His name to the extent of your time spent with Him. Jesus’ apostles used the name of Jesus to cast out demons, and to heal the sick and lame. The apostle Peter knew the power inherent in His name because he was intimate with the Master. Peter basically said to the lame man who was sitting at the gate begging for alms that the resources of this world were inadequate to heal him, and that he knew of another source that was adequate to heal him. This story goes like this:

Then Peter said, “Silver or gold I do not have but what I have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth walk.” (Acts 3:6)

The apostle Peter was able to invoke the name of Jesus because he was intimate with His name. Peter owned the rights to use the name of Jesus because of his relationship with Christ. Later in the same story, Peter would give Jesus the full credit for this great miracle:

Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved. (Acts 4:12)

Is there something great in the name of Jesus? Yes, the answer lies in Luke 1:31-33:

You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give Him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give Him the throne of his father David, and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever; His kingdom will never end.

To exalt or worship God’s name is to put it in its proper place of honor. God’s name is above all other gods and creation itself. Therefore, His name is greatly to be praised. When you exalt His name you begin to attract His presence and power; by doing so you welcome Him to become the banner of victory over your life.

2. David executed an offensive game.

Prior to David’s appearance on the battlefield, Israel was operating in a defensive posture since Goliath would come down to the battle line each day and challenge Israel’s best men to fight; none of King Saul’s men were willing to engage him. Therefore, they remained in a paralyzed and hopeless condition. The Philistines had the advantage by possessing the offensive game at this point.

When David stood and faced Goliath, the giant noticed that David stood before him with “sticks” in his hand. These sticks were the tools of the shepherd. David stood before Goliath as a shepherd of God’s flock since he had in his possession a shepherd’s staff in one hand and a shepherd’s rod strapped to his waist. A shepherd’s staff was known as an offensive weapon to be used to guide the sheep down a path and to prod them if needed. David came with his offensive game. This gave him an advantage over his opponent. An offensive game means that it is up to other side to guess and determine how you will approach the fight; it keeps the other side guessing your strategy. As David stood before the giant, his posture and his unconventional methods of warfare (carrying sticks) confounded the giant. Goliath, an experienced fighter made fun of David’s weapons.

It is the offensive team who gets to decide the strategy on the field while the other side is left only to guess the plays and audibles on the line. A guessing game cannot guarantee you a win. David knew the importance and advantage an offensive game has and he had a simple strategy, to go with the game he was familiar with. David was to use his shepherd tools, a simple sling and a stone. The advantage of an offensive game is that it gives you the opportunity to make the first move while the defense has only seconds to counter your move. We know that a few seconds are valuable in any game. David had the advantage at this point.

3. David established himself with his testimony.

David threw more than a smooth rock at the giant. Before David slung the rock at Goliath, he threw his testimony. What I mean by the word “threw” is that David shared his testimony. A testimony is a powerful weapon at our disposal. David shared his testimony with the king; the one who would empower him with royal permission to fight the giant. David said to Saul:

Your servant has been keeping his father’s sheep. When a lion or a bear came and carried off a sheep from the flock, I went after it, struck it and rescued the sheep from its mouth. When it turned on me, I seized it by its hair, struck it and killed it. Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them, because he has defied the armies of the living God. The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine.” (1 Samuel 17:34-37)

With David it was more than an experience with the lion and the bear. A testimony is the result of an outcome in your favor brought about by divine intervention. It declares that impossible situations can be overcome with the aid of a loving Creator. A testimony is a witness of God’s presence, power and provision in your life. It is a precious thing that should not be kept secret but it should be shared with others (Psalm 66:16).

What does a testimony do for you? A testimony will:
– Encourage those around you.
– Draw others to join your cause.
– Open the doors of favor for you.
– Bring you before great men, like a king.
– Empower you to face your next challenge, that of confronting the giant.

Do not despise your testimony no matter how small it may seem compared to others. You must declare it publicly because by doing so you will bring glory to God and build faith within the community that hears it. Once He is glorified He will use your testimony for the purpose of building faith in others and getting them on board to serve His agenda. As you can see David’s testimony convinced King Saul and got him on board to complete God’s agenda. David won King Saul’s confidence by sharing his testimony. A testimony can open doors and provide opportunities for you. It is from this platform that you serve your leader and the higher purposes for your life. A testimony has to do with your past exploits, whereas a faith declaration has to with your future exploits. A testimony gets you into the game whereas a faith declaration sets the tone for the game with the aim of winning it.

4. David electrified the atmosphere with a faith declaration.

Second, David pronounced a faith declaration aimed at Goliath. A faith declaration is a weapon of divine decree. A royal decree is a specific statement spoken and directed at an object in your future, which shapes and molds a desired outcome. This was David’s faith declaration:

This day the LORD will hand you over to me, and I will strike you down and cut off your head. Today I will give the carcasses of the Philistine army to the birds of the air and the beasts of the earth, and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel. (1 Samuel 17:45-46)

This faith declaration was very descriptive. In today’s vernacular it may have garnered an “R” rating. Faith declarations are not given flippantly; they must be specific and declared authoritatively. In this situation David spoke out exactly what would later take place. A faith declaration will shape a future outcome the way you want to see it happen. I have broken down David’s declaration into the following specifics. This is exactly what took place:
– The Lord will hand you over to me.
– I will strike you down.
– …and cut off your head.
– The birds and beasts will eat you for dinner, and
- the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel.

David acknowledged God’s power to overcome his enemy prior to the battle by making a clear, and specific statement of faith as to how his mission would be accomplished. Now, all David needed to do was to step out and do it. The road of faith is often a lonely road since it requires a courageous leader to cut a path before others can walk on it.

5. David expected God to provide for him along the road of faith.

David was not loaded with any ammunition when he stood in the presence of the king. He possessed only a shepherd’s staff and rod, and a sling in hand. Can you imagine interviewing for a job and not having all the proper tools on hand to do the job? David’s provision came alongside the road of faith. God’s weapons of warfare are simple in nature. It says that after he took off Saul’s armor that David left the king’s presence and…

taking his staff in his hand, chose five smooth stones from the stream, put them in the pouch of his shepherd’s bag and with his sling in his hand, approached the Philistine. (1 Samuel 17:40)

You can see that David had an empty pouch as he stood before the king. After David took off Saul’s ludicrous armor he left his presence, and started to walk toward Goliath (remember with an empty pouch). As he went through the dry riverbed he choose five smooth stones and put them in his shepherd’s pouch. He then approached the Philistine. In other words, his provision came along the road of faith, the pathway leading to Goliath. This is what a true faith walk is. It is leaving a place of security with no provision in hand and trusting God to provide along the road of faith. It was while David walked on this road of faith that God’s resources came to light. Are you able to walk this type of road? Faith is an important element to break the lines of resistance in your life.

You will not always start with what you need for battle, but if you take faith with you, you’ll find what you need. God will provide for our needs to win the battle along the road of faith. It is when you step out by faith, the provision comes to light. What good does it do when you have all you need for battle but fear stops you from going out? King Saul and his men had the latest warfare gadgets but these weapons did not add a dose of courage to these warriors. Courage comes deep within; it begins with mental strength and determination to face what lies before you. I have heard someone say courage does not eliminate fear instead it gives you the ability to confront what is before you. Someone can skirt around the armor on the outside but it’s courage on the inside that matters in the end.

 
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Posted by on June 4, 2011 in XYZ Coaching

 

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A Football Player’s Metamorphosis

My son was an outstanding football player who played first-string positions in offense, defense and special teams during two of his High School prep football seasons. He played so often that he rarely got a break on the sidelines to catch a breath of fresh air. The joke around our house posed in question form was, “Man, are they ever going to allow you a breather between plays?” 

His genesis in football, however, was dismal at best and I wondered if he would ever play the game well, until one day he had a metamorphosis of his own. Prior to his high school years he played in the Nevada Youth Football League. He had never played the game before but wanted to passionately play. He had one small problem; he was timid when it came to tackling others, which is a major part of playing the game. Whenever he would tackle a player he would grab on and wait for some of his teammates to join in on the tackle. It was obvious he was fearful of hurting someone or being hurt himself. This was a personal constraint line he imposed on himself, perhaps for his lack of experience playing in an actual game. In my best estimation, the line of resistance in his life was fear due to a lack of knowledge and experience.

One day there was an option play that took the running back around the side and down the sidelines. My son was playing the defensive end position and followed the play well. He ran toward the sidelines and gained so much momentum running that he just happened to meet the running back on the sideline at the right angle, at the right time with the right amount of speed and force. He had no other option but to plow him over by his shear momentum. It was a great site for any father to witness, as both of them went crashing down, kicking up dirt and grass as they tumbled upon the ground. As soon as he got off the ground I knew something had happened to him on the inside; there was a monumental change in his stride as he strutted back to the huddle. I discerned his fear had lifted as he had gained a new level of confidence as a gridiron man. He had crossed over the line of demarcation; from operating in fear to playing the game with confidence. When he got back into the huddle, his team members celebrated with him as they smacked his helmet with their hands, a sign of acceptance into an elite fraternity of gridiron men. I also noticed, in the plays that followed, he was not intimidated anymore. For him tackling was not a bad thing after all. He had tasted the experience of a tackle and liked it; therefore, crossing his personal line of demarcation, thus, distinguishing himself from his fear of tackling others by himself. My son had broken through fear, and went on to have many more successful prep football seasons as an all around, first string player.

How have you broken through the line of fear in your life?

 
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Posted by on May 20, 2011 in The Family

 

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Default Leadership: The 4 Insidious Killers of Leadership – Part II

Part II of II

3. Intimidation – The risk is too great

Intimidation, the third insidious killer for leaders, is the menacing giant facing you down, keeping you from advancing and accomplishing your objective. When David, the shepherd boy, faced Goliath on the battlefield he courageously invoked a powerful faith declaration and took action steps to overcome the giant’s intimidation tactic. David said to the Philistine:

“You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. This day the Lord will hand you over to me, and I’ll strike you down and cut off your head. Today I will give the carcasses of the Philistine army to the birds of the air and the beasts of the earth, and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel. All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the Lord saves; for the battle is the Lord’s, and he will give all of you into our hands.” (1 Samuel 17:45-47 NIV)

David’s courage was key in overcoming Goliath’s intimidation. Therefore, building courage minimizes, even eliminates the intimidation factor. Courage is not the possession of physical strength, or size. David surely did not possess these qualities during his encounter with the giant. Courage is simply strengthening one’s mind by speaking forthrightly to the problem, then taking actions steps to ensure victory. Speaking a faith declaration engages a person’s total physiology, increasing adrenaline and the rush of blood to the brain. It’s the rush of blood to the brain that makes the difference, a rush of belief into the brain stimulating a “can do” attitude. A positive faith declaration rushes blood to the head stimulating action, while negative emotions tend to rush blood away from the brain to the legs igniting our flight mechanism.

4. Incompetence – The knowledge pool is not so deep

The last insidious killer for leaders is incompetence, which is the inability to take action for one’s lack of knowledge or inexperience to do the job. So what do you do when you’re summoned to do something but you sense your knowledge pool is not so deep? In my opinion, this is the time for collaboration. Collaboration is working with others to tap into another’s knowledge and insight. Incompetence rears its ugly head when we hit a dead end road; you know the place where awareness sets in so we can see our limitations for the first time. This isn’t a time for reclining into pity rather a time of recruiting others into action. Collaboration is about tapping into the knowledge pool of those with greater skill sets, talents and experiences necessary for you to accomplish your objective. To overcome incompetence do not stand-alone rather deepen your pool of knowledge by standing alongside others.

Confronting the Four Killers

The four C’s that overcome the four insidious killers are building internal capacity, gaining confidence, walking in courage, and seeking collaboration. Let’s go back to our story. After the pastor exhausted all leads, and upon my prompting this person finally stepped in to preside over the funeral. Was it difficult? Yes. Did the pastor overcome initial fears? Absolutely, but it wasn’t easy. Confronting one or more of these insidious killers of leadership won’t be easy but confrontation is necessary if leaders are to emerge victoriously. Leaders must ask themselves “Do I want to stay the same?” If so, they’re actually moving backwards instead of maturing into a larger leadership role. New challenges will confront emerging leaders. If leaders want to advance they need to understand these four insidious killers will confront them at each move. If you adopt these four counter actions you’ll be more apt to move forward, surmounting the odds to set yourself on the course of becoming the great leader you were destined to be.

How do you deal with intimidation? Is intimidation common in your life? How has incompetence stifled you in the past?

 
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Posted by on July 31, 2010 in Business & Leadership

 

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